sexta-feira, 27 de fevereiro de 2009

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Sou uma mulher de 26 anos, casada e muito feliz no meu casamento, meu marido me completa e realiza, sei que nosso amor é verdadeiro e nosso relacionamento sólido. Mas quando ele me falou a primeira vez sobre swing, sobre tranzarmos com outra mulher, ou outro homem, minha reação foi de deixá-lo e nunca mais voltar. Porém, muito sabiamente ele foi me apresentando (sem compromissos) esse mundo novo e cheio de novidades para mim, aos poucos minha resistência foi diminuindo, fizemos um perfil no orkut, um msn e começamos a conhecer pessoas intressantes. Com eles aprendi que swing não tem nada a ver com traição ou promiscuidade, a maioria dos casais que costumam realizar essa prática, são pessoas equilibradas, maduras, inteligentes e bem resolvidas. Além claro, teem relacionamentos longos e muita cumplicidade, respeito, amor e cuidado um com o outro. Deixei de lado minhas reservas e preconceitos, assumi que outras mulheres me atraem e que poderiam participar de nossas fantasias sem ameaçar nosso relacionamento. Hoje nosso casamento é muito mais firme e sólido, amadureci muito e vejo sexo com outros olhos: como algo a ser explorado e vivido intensamente. Não há pecado em realizar suas fantasias se você está com a pessoa certa, são todos maiores de idade, usando camisinha, respeitando um ao outro e seus limites, na verdade, isso faz parte da vida e do nosso amadurecimento pessoal. Se sentimos desejos é por que isso é natural do nosso corpo, como qualquer outra necessidade fisiológica. Todos temos fantasias e pode acreditar que a forma com a qual lidamos com essas fantasais diz muito sobre nós e sobre com encaramos a vida e tudo que ela nos traz. sempre há uma escolha, se vamos sufocar nosso desejoe e sentimentos e suportar a frustração, ou abrir o coração pro mundo e relizar-se plenamente sem reservas ser feliz. Resolvi escrever essa matéria porque muitos amigos pedem dicas pra convencer suas parceiras ou para que eu converse com elas. Espero ajudar em algo e que possamos assumir nossos desejos sem culpa ou reservas. Sexo faz parte da vida e é um assunto sério, além de ser uma delícia!

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